Relationships are a big part of our life, not just romantic relationships.
We have relationships with our friends, parents, family, siblings, they are all a part of our relationship cycle.
But the one we talk the most about is a relationship with our lover, partner.
So having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is one of the important moments in our lives, those moments can be magical but it has to have some ups and downs.
Relationships are sometimes toxic and they can damage your self-esteem, positive outlook on life in general, so you have to be careful when you are choosing your partner.
There are cases in which people make each other toxic by bringing the worst sides out of each other.
Sometimes a couple spends years and years together just to find out that in the end they are not right for each other.
But the thing is that couples break up almost all the time and sometimes it is necessary for them to break up in order to stay sane.
Breakups are pretty hard and devastating, it is never easy to break up with your significant other especially if you are still in love with that person.
This scenario may be unbelievable for some people but these things do happen a lot more than expected.
Sometimes there is nothing wrong with your relationship but you have to continue walking forward future separately.
Maybe two of you simply have different goals in life or perhaps one of you must move far away and you do not see the way to keep the connection going.
Sometimes parents, relatives or your friends are the main reason behind a breakup.
That is why the smartest move you could do is to keep your love life private until you know it is permanent.
Or at least do not let other people to get between you and your partner, you have to resolve whatever problem that you have with your partner and only your partner.
When you let others now everything about your issues and business then you are giving them the power to meddle and to make some mess in your life.
Sometimes it is hard to maintain a relationship, it takes effort and will from both partners. Also communication is the main key of every relationship.
When one of the important factors is lacking then the whole relationship crumbles.
There are scientific studies which include the fact that single people see happy couples while committed people see the freedom of being single.
It is in human nature to only see the things we are missing, but we need to work on that and change our way of thinking.
We start relationships with people that we see as possible soulmate, we build something with that person hoping that one day we grow old with him or her.
But some people are simply lessons, so every relationship has a different lesson for you.
There are people who can stay friends with their ex because they are comfortable with that bond but some people stay friends with their ex because they cannot stand the idea of losing them so they stay there hoping that someday they will get back together.
But the healthy way to move on is to cry it out and continue with life, you have to accept the fact that that person is not the one for you and that you have endless options ahead.
Part of breakup is that period where you discover yourself, you learn to love yourself the way the others should love you.
Having an ex may be hurtful, frustrating, maybe even funny but you can learn a lot about yourself by analysing your feelings for that person. So a lot of people had dreams about their ex lover.
This is not uncommon at all, it is logical to dream about someone that was a big part of your life.
Having a dream about your ex could mean that you are not over that person, perhaps you still have some feelings for that person and you are not coping with them well.
Or perhaps this type of a dream appears right after your breakup, you are hurt and confused so this dream reflects on your emotions and desires.
An ex in a dream symbolises past and feelings, it reveals your desires and perhaps your problem with letting go of the past.
If a lot of time has passed since that breakup and you have this type of a dream, then you have a serious problem in your life.
It means that you are not letting go of your past, you are holding on to possible scenarios or possible future you could have had with that person but you need to accept the reality and finally move on from that person.
There are various dreams in which your ex may appear, for example you could dream about your first love or maybe getting back together with your ex.
Every dream has a meaning of its own so you need to be careful with analysing your dream.
You need to remember the course of your dream and all of the details in it, if you want to find the true meaning behind your dream you will have to put some effort in order to succeed in your mission.
So just remember that this type of a dream is not uncommon at all, well actually it is one of the most common dreams that can appear.
The Most Common Dreams About Your Ex
Dreaming about your ex boyfriend or girlfriend in general- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend, then this type of a dream could be a sign of possible unresolved feelings for this particular person.
Reason behind this type of a dream could be the fact that the two of you have broken up recently or maybe you are not over the ex from your past.
There is a chance that you have seen your ex recently and now that brings up some feelings you thought were erased from your mind and heart.
Maybe you are stalking your ex on social media or maybe you have heard something about his or hers new lover so now that is confusing you and at the same time hurting you.
It can be a tricky situation but you should remember the reason behind your breakup and finally move on completely from that.
Dreaming about your first love- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about your first love, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are still in love with that idea of relationship you had with your first love.
First love is the love in which we discover ourselves and we get a clear image on our desires for a future partner.
It is messy and sometimes hard but everyone experiences it at some point, for some their first love is the love of their life and they never get a chance to have another person in their life because they had a lot of luck at their first strike.
Dreaming about your first love could also be a sign that you are not satisfied with your current partner for some reason.
Maybe this person is not giving you the rush and excitement like your first love did.
Dreaming about your recent ex- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about your recent ex partner, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you have a lot of unresolved feelings for your recent ex.
Perhaps this breakup was truly devastating for you and now you are having trouble with coping up with your pain.
You do not see the exit from this current situation and that is stressing you a lot more than it should.
So perhaps you still want to continue this relationship but you are aware of the fact it is over.
You have to find a way to move on.
But you should not be over critical when it comes to your feelings because they are normal and natural.
You have to let yourself grieve and you need to embrace the pain in order to grow and evolve as a person.
Dreaming about your ex wanting to get back together with you- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about your ex that wants to get back together with you, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are hoping that your ex still wants you like you want him or her.
There is a possibility that you are missing particular feeling or a version of you that was present when you were with that person.
But it is up to you to decide and to clear your head the right way.
Dreaming about having a fight with your ex- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about having a fight with your ex, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are having certain conflicts within yourself.
Or perhaps you are fighting with your current lover and those fights are taking you back to the fights with your ex.
Perhaps there is a certain pattern that was present in your past relationship.
Maybe you are making the same mistakes like you made with your ex and now you are aware of that and you want to fix it.
Dreaming about having kids with your ex partner- If you had a dream like this in which you are starting a family with your ex partner, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you actually have a child with your ex.
Or maybe there was a chance for that to happen but it did not .
It may also be a sign that you are still wishing to end up with your ex.
Perhaps you are hoping that two of you will have a chance again sometimes in the future.
Dreaming about having intercourse with your toxic ex lover- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about having sex with your toxic ex, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are having a hard time with finding the right person to fulfil your desires like your ex did.
Maybe you are considering calling your ex for a meeting or a date, but you know that that is a huge mistake.
Dreaming about saving your ex from some kind of danger- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about saving your ex from a certain danger, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are a healed person now.
This means that you are done and that you simply don’t want to go back to the past.
You are aware of everything but you accept everything, also you understand that you and your ex did not know better at that given moment but now everything is alright.
You did not let the feelings drown you and you are ready for everything that needs to arrive into your life.
Dreaming about your ex murdering you- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about your ex killing you, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are broken from that relationship.
So this means that you had a toxic relationship with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
That person broke you somehow, maybe he or she killed your confidence, maybe that person killed your positivity and the idea of a happy life.
Whatever it is you need to move on from it.
Accept the fact that your ex was never the one for you, your ex did not deserve you.
Dreaming about your ex having a new partner- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about your ex having a new partner , then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are not comfortable with your ex moving on without you.
This is not good at all because it means that your happiness depends on your ex.
This is not right and you know it.
Start focusing on yourself and start realizing that people come and go, you have to be there for yourself because no one else will do that for you.
Dreaming about an abusive ex- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about an abusive ex, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you are hating the parts of yourself that grew with your ex.
By this I mean your habits and behaviour.
Maybe you started drinking or taking medications while you were with your ex, or perhaps you started losing your self-esteem and faith.
There is a chance that you have lost your religion which was strong before the arrival of that person.
Dreaming about getting some advice from your ex- If you had a dream like this in which you are dreaming about getting some advice from your ex, then this type of a dream could be a sign that you should analyse your past relationship in order to stop repeating bad behaviour.
If you were a bad listener try harder with your new partner or perhaps you were not good with communication and expressing your feelings and if you continue with that you are likely to lose your new partner.
Relationships are all about communication and compromises, so be ready to make a lot of effort if you want to keep the relationship going.